It’s funny how you can know someone for years and never really connect, yet with others you meet once and become friends for life from that moment on.
My friend Gemma is one of those ones that I got chatting to one night at a party in my mid 20s and before long we were spending every weekend together; gossiping around The Tan on a Saturday morning, heading out together later that night and meeting up again for a roast of a Sunday afternoon.
I had always admired Gemma from afar; she was one of those girls who seemed to have it all figured out. She was beautifully spoken – a trait she gained from her mother and later honed as a journalist, and always seemed to be so well put together wearing ‘outfits’ rather than just clothes.
Anyway, Gem recently confined in me that she and her hubby were expecting their first bub later in the year, and asked about what baby gear she would need, which got me thinking about the true essentials.
You can actually get away with one tenth of the baby kit that so many of the parenting websites would have you believe you need. Here’s a quick list that I put together for Gem. Every baby is different, so if you find that you need extra kit beyond this list, you can always buy it once the bub arrives. Continue reading “A simple guide to baby gear”
Pregnancy is a funny thing. All of a sudden strangers will stop you in the street to talk to you about your pending arrival, particularly women who love to talk about their experiences and pass on often unrequited advice. I would always take it with a grain of salt, as often the advice is more about their own self soothing than about your situation, however one of the best tips I was given when I was pregnant with Ol was to watch the Oprah Baby Language clip on Youtube.
After a while I started to hear the different cries and was able to work him out and get him what he need and it soon became second nature, to the point where I could hear other people’s babies ‘talking’ in the streets. Babies really are clever things and assuming your baby doesn’t have reflux or other difficulties, you can generally keep them pretty content just by observing them closely and listening to what they’re trying to tell you. Continue reading “A few simple baby tips”
Over the years I’ve picked up a few tips from seasoned girlfriends and worked out a few more along the way, so I thought it would be helpful to share them with any mums (or dads) looking for a bit of help here and there.. I know I’m always keen to hear from other mums about tips for tricky situations, which is often a lot faster and more effective than reading a thousand parenting books.
Continue reading “Slow parenting for toddlers”